Daily Archives: March 12, 2009

I want this obituary

Oh. My. God. I don’t want her life, per se. But I enjoyed reading this way too much. My hat goes off  to Robert D. McFadden and whoever came up with the title  that includes “doyenne of protocol.”

It starts out all normal-obituary-like:

Leonore Annenberg, the society doyenne who was President Ronald Reagan’s first chief of protocol and who, with her late husband, the ambassador and publisher Walter Annenberg, gave away billions to philanthropic causes, died early Thursday in Rancho Mirage, California, where she had a home. She was 91.

The fourth paragraph gets crazy.

Born into wealth, married to men with liquor and publishing empires, Annenberg lived on a grand scale, with baronial estates, a ranch, a ski lodge and art-filled apartments. Her friends, who called her Lee, were presidents, movie stars, royalty and the cream of society. A porcelain-skinned, meringue-blonde hostess, she entertained lavishly, gave fortunes to causes — and might never have had a real job had it not been for her old friend Ronnie.

Ronald Reagan? That Ronnie? What the ——–???? Is their family PR person aware of this piece? Or is her reputation just so Paris Hilton-y that nobody cares at this point? Is was it part of her brand?

Just. Read. More. Totally worth it, I swear.

I was wrong

In this post.

I have multiple, multiple problems with Mr. John Applegate’s group, statements and the folks who joined this group.

But you’re going to say, “Phillygrrl, these kinds of groups exist in the zillions? Why is this particular group targeted for your disdain?” (And honestly, it’s ridiculous that I’m giving them free publicity. You know there were going to be all of five members before this post.)

I’ll tell you why. Because this was created by students from Eastern University. I have family who graduated from Eastern. I feel invested in this university. Especially since multiple Indian folks from my church have either graduated or intend to matriculate at Eastern University. It’s purported as a Christian university. Now I know the bad PR Christianity has been getting for the past 1000+ years. But I work very very hard to change the negative stereotypes surrounding Christians in modern-day America. If so-called Christian folks in the Philadelphia area want to have the discussion about immigrants, I say let’s have it.  I’m incredibly proud of what the South Asian community has accomplished both here in Philadelphia and the rest of the world. What’s your problem with successful Indians like myself? Do tell me now. I don’t want my kids dealing with it later.

I was wrong. It’s not an Eastern problem. In fact, outside of the creator, there’s only one other member from Eastern. (Who’s African American, okay whatev?!) So Eastern alum, forgive me. I was rash. I was stupid. I reacted. I’m sorry. It’s apparent from the makeup of the group and groups like it that ignorance knows no boundaries. (Not sure how the girl with the Indian bf rationalizes this to herself, but like I said, whatever.)

So huge apology to all the Eastern alums that are mad at me. I’m sorry I dissed your school.

Pretty new header

From Twitter pal Rob Bender. Much obliged Rob!