Monthly Archives: July 2009

On Corner Stores, Storekeepers and Race Relations

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A couple weeks ago, I witnessed a disturbing incident on Fifth Street. While on my way to work at the library, I stopped by a mom and pop store on the same block to pick up some Spiderman stickers (for bribing my student, naturally). I was rummaging around the stationary shelf when I heard a scuffle. I peeked over to find the proprietors, who happen to be Korean, scuffling with a young black boy. One man was holding him down and another was patting him down. “You shoplift! You shoplift!” shouted the younger man, as he reached into the boy’s pocket.

“I didn’t shoplift nothing, man!” said the kid. And sure enough, they could find nothing on him.

Now I don’t know whether the kid fit the profile of what they perceived to be a shoplifter, or whether he was just about to shoplift when they confronted him, or whether he was just an innocent bystander. Who knows? As the kid walked out of the door, I met his eyes. He was furious. His face reflected his anger and humiliation.

The neighborhood in which the incident occurred happens to the place where I grew up. Some people call it Little Korea. Some call it the Latin Ghetto. Suffice to say, a large percentage of the neighborhood’s merchants (whose businesses line Fifth Street) are Korean-Americans.  And their customers are mostly black and Hispanic. Race relations in Olney? Everybody minds their own business. We try to get along. We do. Most of the time. Continue reading

Gorgeous & Homely

That’s me in a nutshell.

Hey, Bharat Matrimony. Do you need a copywriter? Because I’m totally willing to help you guys out…

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Let’s all run barefoot. Not.

So there’s this guy. You may have seen him. He runs barefoot on Kelly Drive. Which is fine. Whatever floats his boat. I like to walk barefoot. In a yard, maybe. With grass. I never wear shoes in the country. But given the amount of glass on Philly streets, I doubt I’ll be taking up barefoot running anytime soon. Ugh. Imagine running up and down the street of Chinatown. Yuck!

McDougall now thinks that modern running shoes may actually be the problem.

Their raised heels encourage people to run with a higher-impact, heel-first strike, and their cushioned soles make such a strike less painful – but not less damaging.

And, by preventing the foot’s arch from bearing weight, support features in the shoe may weaken it over time and increase the likelihood of injury.

In contrast, feet that are in direct contact with the ground get constant sensory feedback. They adjust to reduce impact. Except for falls, running injuries are almost unheard of among the Tarahumara.

“In bare feet, you can’t over-pronate, overtrain, or overstride,” McDougall said. “The bare foot is the best coach of all.”

To my hometown of Vineland, NJ

Dear Vineland,

When I was a little kid, I adored you. And even now, as a Philadelphian, I manage to refrain from making Jersey jokes simply because of my regard for you. But please – enough of this nonsense about music festivals. Last summer, there was supposed to be a three-day music festival in Vineland. Our own little Woodstock. My cousins and I were so proud and excited. Our town was cool. We started collecting camp chairs. Made elaborate seating charts. And then. Then you flaked out, Vineland. Some of you formed the a website. The (now-active) NeighborsAgainstRockConcertSite and decided the “logistics” weren’t going to work out.You forced the event planner to cancel the concert. Disaster. Continue reading

Always Google-stalk before the first date

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So Wired magazine’s August issue features an article called “”How to Behave: New Rules for Highly Evolved Humans.” Apparently they got a group of social scientists together who articulated social media/new technology etiquette. Let’s take a look at some of them:

Don’t Google-stalk before a first date. The magazine says “Mutual self-disclosure, on the other hand, tends to build strong interpersonal bonds, leading to trust, admiration, and ultimately intimacy. Besides, reading your date’s Muppet Show fanfic might end a beautiful friendship before it even begins.” Seriously? I wouldn’t go into a job interview without Googling the heck out of the company. Why would I meet a stranger without Googling them? Blind dates ended in the eighties, people. (Although to be fair, I Google everyone, all the time, no matter what.)

Meet online friends in the real world. My fear is that my online friends won’t find me as interesting in the real world. Who wants to be a bore? But it’s a good practice and it reinforces the networking part of social networking. So do it. Set up that Tweetup. Continue reading

Does Your Pop Music Suck? Redemption for the Black Eyed Peas.

/This post has been commandeered by guest blogger Don Bito/

It’s true that I have some beef with the Black Eyed Peas. Let’s just say I find their beats flaccid, their lyrics trite and in general I think they’re a pretty talentless act.

Let’s also say that this in no way means they did not release what is obviously the pop anthem smash hit of the summer, I Gotta Feeling.

How, you may ask, are these two things not contradictory? Continue reading

Speaking of music

Tomorrow is the release party for Gemini Wolf’s new album, Synchronized Eyes. Read more about them in this week’s edition of Philadelphia Weekly.

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Make your own pickle jokes

And as always, Friday nights are bluegrass nights. Come on out and listen to some old-timey music.

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So what’s the deal with AP classes?

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When I was in high school classes, I was one of the AP kids. (*Coughs. Nerd.) That meant that in the specific AP courses I took – AP Government & Politics, AP American History, AP European History and AP English – I was able to take a test at the end of the year that would ostensibly give me college credit for the courses. I didn’t really get the significance of this until much later. I just wanted to graduate with a higher class rank. (*Coughs. Nerd.) It took me until senior year of college to realize that the courses I took in college meant I could graduate an entire semester early. Then, of course, I wished I’d taken more.

This year, my little sister took two AP courses. She’s taken some before, she knows the deal. But there was a specific test she didn’t really want to take: AP Economics. She loved her class. She loved her teacher (same one I had when I was in school, yay).  At the end of the year – whether they wanted to or not – her schoolmates and her were required to take the AP test. Her school requires that students who are registered for AP courses must take the AP test. In fact, some years before, students taking AP classes were told they would have to pay if they didn’t take the test. Continue reading

Think safety first, kids!

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